NEXT-GENERATION PARENTING: HELICOPTER PARENTING


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Bridging Theory and Practice for Early Years Education, Abdülkadir Kabadayı, Editör, Elsevier Science, Oxford/Amsterdam , Lyon, ss.143-163, 2021

  • Yayın Türü: Kitapta Bölüm / Mesleki Kitap
  • Basım Tarihi: 2021
  • Yayınevi: Elsevier Science, Oxford/Amsterdam 
  • Basıldığı Şehir: Lyon
  • Sayfa Sayıları: ss.143-163
  • Editörler: Abdülkadir Kabadayı, Editör
  • İstanbul Üniversitesi-Cerrahpaşa Adresli: Evet

Özet

Recently, many studies have been conducted in the international literature to measure the concept of helicopter parenting and this attitude. This difference has been observed significantly in studies involving the comparison of Asian and American societies (Kwon & Bingham, 2016; Kwon, Yoo, & Gagne, 2017). Helicopter parenting attitude is an intense and applied parental attitude that leads to negative consequences in the lives of individuals and has a high level of involvement (Schiffrin, 2017). Both the research and the studies on the subject abroad show that helicopter parenting is becoming increasingly widespread. It is seen that the studies focus on the negative consequences of helicopter parental attitude. However, there are a very limited number of researchers who argue that this  approach may have positive consequences(Cutright, 2008; cited by Florida State University, 2016: Yılmaz, 2020). In the study conducted by Yılmaz, 2020, it was observed that one-third of mothers and one-seventh of fathers in Turkey had helicopter parental attitudes, and mothers exhibited more helicopter attitudes than fathers. The results obtained in line with the studies in the literature show that helicopter parenting attitude aims to reduce increased anxiety and depression levels. However, it is a fact that the individual aims to increase the level of well-being and satisfaction with life. There are studies on developing scales that measure helicopter parenting attitudes and revealing these attitudes and taking necessary precautions. However, it is important to inform the parents about helicopter parenting and to inform them about the negative consequences that may occur. The reason for this is that parents want to be supportive can be interpreted as controllable and sensitive by their children. The ability to assess and respond to a child's needs is a key predictor of child-related outcomes in the developmental literature. Supporting the child to make age-appropriate decisions and take responsibility as an individual, and giving him/her the opportunity to experience will contribute to the development of self-confidence and self-esteem. It is important for families to be aware of their attitudes and to make efforts to change these attitudes if they have helicopter parenting attitudes.